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Commonly Known Facts About Cheating Husbands
Author: Ling Tong
According to the statistics, there are far more cheating husbands than there are cheating wives. It seems that men are more likely to cheat on their spouses than women. There are various reasons for this. Women are the ones that most often care for the home and children, even though they do work outside the home. They try to get home as soon as possible after work to take care of the various chores such as laundry and preparing meals. Men are more likely to go out for a drink with the guys after work, they tend to work in jobs that have more overtime involved and their work often requires them to travel. This is the case with women also, but men sometimes tend to take their secretaries along and it is the secretary or a colleague with whom most husbands are guilty of having an affair.
Husbands are more likely to become involved in cheating online by flirting with women in chat rooms. Although many people do not think this is cheating on your spouse, it is because when you are involved in this type of activity your attention is on the other person and the fantasy of having an affair rather than on your marriage. With webcams, the husband and the other person can see each other and they can make arrangements to meet for sexual activity after they spend some time talking to one another.
Statistics also show that the more money a husband has or earns, the likelihood of cheating on his wife increases drastically. This is because he has more money to travel, to join clubs and to take time off work. It also gives him access to funds to use for hotel and gifts for a lover. Those who do not have a lot of money tend to focus their attention more on making money so that they can bring more comforts to their families and do not seem to have time to cheat. That is not to say that the average wage earners do not cheat because they do.
As a husband and wife become more complacent in their marriage, a lack of sexual activity, attraction is sometimes the reason why husbands cheat. They want to experience the stimulation of their youth and need to know that they are still attractive to women. These men rarely go out looking to have an affair. More than likely they just want a one-night stand just for something different. In some cases, it makes their wives seem more attractive when they go home and can be stimulating for their sex lives.
When husbands do have affairs, they usually do so with a younger woman. If they only want a one-night stand though, they are usually not very particular because they feel that they will never see this person again and that they won't get caught. When there is a lack of sexual activity in the marriage, husbands are more apt to feel that they are justified in cheating in order to have their needs met.
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Dating Tips and Advice - Guys Don't Need Them to Pick Up Women
Author: Amir Rimer
It seems to me that we are seeking success with women because we believe that if we are successful with women we will experience some sort of great joy and enduring pleasure.
What I said may surprise you.
Moreover, it may also surprise you that success with women is not what you REALLY want.
You only want to be in this state because you believe that this state will serve as a bridge between your current less fulfilling state (emptiness, loneliness, despair, etc...) to a different more pleasurable state (satisfaction, fulfillment, and contentment).
Yet, for some reason the state of being successful with women never seems to materialize. The only place where it usually does is in your head.
So, the inevitable question is: why?
Why are you doing everything that you can to achieve success with women yet fail and why there are some guys who treat women badly, yet achieve all the success they want?
Now the simple answer that most dating gurus give to men is that women are attracted to men that are confident and are repulsed by nice men who radiate neediness and lack of self esteem.
This is very true. This is what is actually going on, but how does this help the guys who lack confidence reach the state of success that the confident guys have.
If you have read any of my articles you probably know by now that I don't believe in giving people positive methods to achieve any physiological endeavors in life.
On the contrary, I believe that we have tried all the positive methods to become successful with women for years and we still find ourselves exactly where we started. Very depressed and confused.
So instead of doing what we have always done and expect different results, let's do things differently in order to experience new results.
Let's forget following a positive system, advice, tip, or guru and concentrate our powers on: Negation of false beliefs.
I tried to explain negation of false beliefs in many ways in the past and in this article I will try to explain it through a fun yet informative allegory.
Imagine yourself living on an island.
The island has two sides to it which are separated by a huge river.
The two sides of the island, X and Y, are occupied with people, yet the people from side X cannot visit the people from side Y (and vice versa) because there isn't any bridge or boat which can help them to cross the huge river.
The "X" side of the island is the side where you want to be (a side populated by confident guys who are extraordinary successful with women).
And the "Y" side is where you currently are (a side populated by "nice" guys who aren't successful with women).
You want to move from where you are (Y) to where you think you should be (X).
The problem is, apart from crossing the huge river, is that people from side Y of the island only accept newcomers who ALREADY have a confident mentality like they do.
So when you ask yourself or other people questions like:
- How can I become successful with women? -
- Can you give me 5 ways / tips / strategies,suggestions to get hot girls?
- Do you know how I can get my ex-girlfriend back?
- Why do women always dump me and then go out with jerks that treat them badly?
The answers you get for your questions, as you see, are not important at all.
What is important is that you currently have the kind of mentality which will not give you access to side "X" of the island.
This may be the most important thing I can tell you, don't forget it.
I will repeat it again in different words, because it is so important!
The questions that you ask are much more important than the answers you get.
The "nice" people who occupy side "Y" of the island are always asking these kind of unproductive questions, which show lack of confidence and are always trying to figure out why they are stuck on the "Y" side of the island.
As I said before, you can only be a part of the community of side "X" of the island if you are acting like its inhabitants from the very beginning.
After you become the kind of person who is thinking, speaking, and acting like the people from side "X", you will not have to do anything at all to cross the huge river. You will suddenly find yourself in side "X".
So the next time you have a burring question which you just can't find answer for, stop for a second and ask yourself the following question very seriously:
From which side of the island am I asking this question?
Article Source: http://www.articlesbase.com/relationships-articles/dating-tips-and-advice-guys-dont-need-them-to-pick-up-women-589208.html
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Amir Rimer gives the complete story on how to attract women, using the most groundbreaking, innovative psychological techniques in the world in his new eBook The Dating Doctrine, which has now become available.
To learn more about how to become a women magnet, download the FREE 7 day mini course he has especially prepared for you at the following link:
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