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Relationship Advice For Men - What Women Wish You Knew
Author: Joshua Uebergang
Men, you can no longer can club a woman across the head and drag her to your cave. If you want a relationship with a woman, there's some advice you need to follow. When you follow this help, you'll have women walking into your cave at their will.
As hard as it to believe sometimes being a man, women are humans. They make up half of the world's population. And what is it that all humans want in relationships? We all want to feel great. Women especially love being around men who make them feel great. I'm talking at an emotional, not physical, level.
When a woman is talking with her friends, if you made her feel great, she will brag about you. "Well, what did you talk about?" her friends ask. "I don't know. I just felt great!" she replies. If you make people feel great, they don't have to remember what you did, what you said, or how you said it. They will remember how you make them feel.
What's some relationship advice to make women feel great? Contrary to what most communication experts teach, I don't advise men to compliment a woman unless you're clearly in a relationship with her. Giving compliments subtracts from your power, something women wish their man had more of.
One of the best ways to make a woman feel great is to be funny. You don't want to be a clown, because women don't go to the circus for a relationship, but humor is a universally attractive quality. The type of humor I recommend you develop is cocky and funny. It gently teases. One example is saying, "Stop looking at me like a piece of meat", with a sly smile.
Another piece of relationship advice men need to take to have better relationships with women is to stop giving advice. It's advice to stop giving advice.
As men, we feel compelled to solve problems. We fix cars. Repair homes. Recover lost data from computers. And even gives each other advice on careers, dating, and other areas.
It may surprise you that when a woman talks to you about a problem, she isn't after you to solve it. When we apply our problem-solving mindset to relationships with women, they become dejected. They wonder why their man just won't listen. A woman doesn't share her problems to have them solved - she only wants empathy and understanding. We all want to be understood.
The cure to the advice-giving syndrome is to emphatically listen. The active listening skills I encourage you to use in your relationships is not one of silence as you bite your tongue and resist giving advice. Focus on your partner, reflect her words and feeling, and enter her reality. It can be uncomfortable, but she will thank you for it.
Men, follow this free relationship advice and you will develop good relationships with women. Unless you want the police arresting you, put that club away and follow these lessons.
Article Source: http://www.articlesbase.com/relationships-articles/relationship-advice-for-men-what-women-wish-you-knew-785396.html
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Joshua Uebergang, aka "Tower of Power", is a young communication skills coach, author, and owner of Tower of Power. Visit his blog and sign-up free to get relationship communcation skills by email, along with blog updates, and more! Go now to Tower of Power.
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Important Questions to Ask a Future Spouse
Author: David Beart
They say that you'll know when you've met the right one. Chances are that you'll know that he or she is someone you hope to settle down with long before there is ever a ring in site, but before getting too far ahead of yourself there are a few questions to ask a future spouse that can give you a good glimpse of things to come so that you know what you're getting into.
You may think that you know all there is to know about your future spouse and he or she may seem like the perfect fit, but the marriage and day-to-day life together has a tendency of bringing out other sides of people that you may not have had the chance to see before hand. I'm not talking about a Jekyll and Hyde situation, but simply some habits and beliefs that may not seem all that important when you're just dating but could pose problems later on. Things like money, religion and family all have a way of creeping in between a couple and causing problems, so talking about these sorts of things before a marriage is extremely important so you both know where you stand on some potentially major issues.
Before getting into the specific questions to ask a future spouse, let's talk about how to ask them. Since some of these topics may strike a cord and be touchy for some, you need to approach them as gently as possible. There is no need to put the pressure on and imply that the answers will somehow make or break the relationship. You simply want to have a free and open conversation about some things that you're wondering about. The last thing you want is for them to feel as if they're being interrogated or judged. Something else that you must do is keep an open mind. This is easier said than done when the love of your life throws you for a loop with an answer you weren't expecting! Be calm, rational and understanding while you listen to their answers. Give them the chance to speak freely and resist the urge to put down or argue about the answers they give. Ultimately your goal is to get answers to the questions that will give you the best possible insight into your life with your new partner.
The 3 Most Important Questions to Ask BEFORE You Get Married
1. Do you want to have children?
Whether you want them or not, it's important that you both are completely clear on where you stand about the children issue long before saying 'I do'. This is a deal breaker because becoming a parent isn't something that one should have to forgo or sacrifice for someone else. Both parties have to be in agreement about an issue this important in order for a marriage to work.
2. Have you ever cheated on anyone?
Don't just assume that if they haven't already told you then it's because they've never been unfaithful in a relationship. If they answer yes to this question then you owe it to yourself to really try to understand why they were unfaithful and whether or not it's something that you're comfortable knowing as you commit to a lifetime with this person. Ask about the issues that may have led to them being unfaithful. Ask whether or not it was a one night stand or an all out emotional affair because it will help you to know if there were serious issues that led them astray or if they were simply just disrespectful of the relationship and other person. Use this information to help you figure out if they seem likely to do it again. Remember also that it has been shown that most people who have cheated do go on to do it again.
3. Ideally, how do you think finances should be handled in a marriage?
Money issues remain one of the leading causes of divorce so knowing in advance how you both will handle the finances is a definite must in order to keep the peace. This doesn't mean that you're doomed if one is a spender and the other is a penny pincher, but you do need to work out an arrangement that you're both comfortable with when it comes to finances. This is also when you'll find out whether or not your future spouse is old fashioned in their way of thinking in regards to who should be the bread winner which is also a potential source of trouble.
Article Source: http://www.articlesbase.com/dating-articles/important-questions-to-ask-a-future-spouse-1134760.html
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David Beart is the owner of the Professors House. This site covers relationship topics such as wedding information, dating, marriage and divorce.
Are You The Lover Of A Married Woman?
Author: Marius Gherghinescu
A relationship with a married woman is ideal for a man who does not want any responsibility. It is perfect for a man who does not want family, meals with his lover's parents, sharing expenses or doing work in the house. It is comfortable and inciting - a perfect combination and quite rare. It is wonderful to see how somebody feels passion for you, shares your sexual fantasies, sends you little gifts or sends you secret messages.
Things may get complicated the moment one of the two lovers falls in love and wants more. There may be a divorce so you need to be careful.
There are rules in such a relationship with a married woman that would protect both of you from complications:
1. Do not enter such a relationship when the husband is a friend, co-worker or a relative.
You will feel remorse anytime you are together and this is stressful. Imagine what will happen if the husband finds out. How will you face him?
2. Do not ask more than she can offer
You know she will spend nights with you only once in a while, she will not be with you at the weekend; she can't see you whenever you want this or even answer the phone when you call her. If you accept such a relationship, you need to accept the whole package.
3. Do not expose her to risky situations
Don't tell others about your relationship, do not call her home, do not go to her place, do not introduce her to your friends or insist to go some place together.
4. Do not blackmail her
Never say ''if you don't want to see me anymore I'll tell your husband about us'', because there is a good chance you never see her again.
5. Because of the feeling of guilt, women tell their lover all sorts of things, more or less true. She tries to find a reason for cheating so she tells bad stuff about her husband. Sometimes it is true, the husband can be a jerk but some other times it is a lie. Women can lie as men do and they do it for not making a bad impression.
6. Do not open your heart in front of her
It is not a good idea to give all sorts of details about your private life. Maybe you will decide to end up the relationship so do not tell your secrets and weaknesses.
7. Do not become her confessor
It is not a mistake that she tells you about her private life, but you should avoid long discussions about her marriage problems, friends and worries. You are not a shrink, you are her lover.
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Article Source: http://www.articlesbase.com/infidelity-articles/are-you-the-lover-of-a-married-woman-821267.html
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Dating Tips and Advice - Guys Don't Need Them to Pick Up Women
Author: Amir Rimer
It seems to me that we are seeking success with women because we believe that if we are successful with women we will experience some sort of great joy and enduring pleasure.
What I said may surprise you.
Moreover, it may also surprise you that success with women is not what you REALLY want.
You only want to be in this state because you believe that this state will serve as a bridge between your current less fulfilling state (emptiness, loneliness, despair, etc...) to a different more pleasurable state (satisfaction, fulfillment, and contentment).
Yet, for some reason the state of being successful with women never seems to materialize. The only place where it usually does is in your head.
So, the inevitable question is: why?
Why are you doing everything that you can to achieve success with women yet fail and why there are some guys who treat women badly, yet achieve all the success they want?
Now the simple answer that most dating gurus give to men is that women are attracted to men that are confident and are repulsed by nice men who radiate neediness and lack of self esteem.
This is very true. This is what is actually going on, but how does this help the guys who lack confidence reach the state of success that the confident guys have.
If you have read any of my articles you probably know by now that I don't believe in giving people positive methods to achieve any physiological endeavors in life.
On the contrary, I believe that we have tried all the positive methods to become successful with women for years and we still find ourselves exactly where we started. Very depressed and confused.
So instead of doing what we have always done and expect different results, let's do things differently in order to experience new results.
Let's forget following a positive system, advice, tip, or guru and concentrate our powers on: Negation of false beliefs.
I tried to explain negation of false beliefs in many ways in the past and in this article I will try to explain it through a fun yet informative allegory.
Imagine yourself living on an island.
The island has two sides to it which are separated by a huge river.
The two sides of the island, X and Y, are occupied with people, yet the people from side X cannot visit the people from side Y (and vice versa) because there isn't any bridge or boat which can help them to cross the huge river.
The "X" side of the island is the side where you want to be (a side populated by confident guys who are extraordinary successful with women).
And the "Y" side is where you currently are (a side populated by "nice" guys who aren't successful with women).
You want to move from where you are (Y) to where you think you should be (X).
The problem is, apart from crossing the huge river, is that people from side Y of the island only accept newcomers who ALREADY have a confident mentality like they do.
So when you ask yourself or other people questions like:
- How can I become successful with women? -
- Can you give me 5 ways / tips / strategies,suggestions to get hot girls?
- Do you know how I can get my ex-girlfriend back?
- Why do women always dump me and then go out with jerks that treat them badly?
The answers you get for your questions, as you see, are not important at all.
What is important is that you currently have the kind of mentality which will not give you access to side "X" of the island.
This may be the most important thing I can tell you, don't forget it.
I will repeat it again in different words, because it is so important!
The questions that you ask are much more important than the answers you get.
The "nice" people who occupy side "Y" of the island are always asking these kind of unproductive questions, which show lack of confidence and are always trying to figure out why they are stuck on the "Y" side of the island.
As I said before, you can only be a part of the community of side "X" of the island if you are acting like its inhabitants from the very beginning.
After you become the kind of person who is thinking, speaking, and acting like the people from side "X", you will not have to do anything at all to cross the huge river. You will suddenly find yourself in side "X".
So the next time you have a burring question which you just can't find answer for, stop for a second and ask yourself the following question very seriously:
From which side of the island am I asking this question?
Article Source: http://www.articlesbase.com/relationships-articles/dating-tips-and-advice-guys-dont-need-them-to-pick-up-women-589208.html
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Amir Rimer gives the complete story on how to attract women, using the most groundbreaking, innovative psychological techniques in the world in his new eBook The Dating Doctrine, which has now become available.
To learn more about how to become a women magnet, download the FREE 7 day mini course he has especially prepared for you at the following link:
http://www.yougetgirl.com
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